
Wow, I can’t believe I am writing the final blog post of the semester. As I look back on the last four months, my mind gets caught in a tangled web of thoughts. Last night, I was sitting on the rooftop of Meet, a hostel in Garda, talking to a few people who were staying there as well. They asked my friend, Maddi, and I what our favorite place in Italy was. We both looked at each other with blank stares and all that could come out of my mouth was the word, “ummm…” I’m sure the guys who asked the question thought it would be a simple answer, but they really did stump us. My mind went blank and I couldn’t even remember all the amazing places I had been in order to give them an honest answer. That was when I realized how necessary it is to reflect on my time in Italy and how I am going to use this blog as a way to organize my muddled thoughts. Although I can’t say I will be able to choose a favorite city in Italy even after writing this, I hope to gain some clarity on other aspects of the experience.
Every time we met in class this semester we were assigned to write down something we read and heard during the previous week. The very first class, instead, we were asked to write down why we enrolled in this class. I wrote, “I want to be able to fully appreciate Florence and figured the best way to do that is learn all about it and its culture.” Meeting every week in classroom F along with roaming around the city, gave me just that and so much more.
The first thing I want to mention is how much I have grown in this last semester. Being abroad gave me a new kind of independence. Not the kind of independence where you’re living on your own and are going to have cereal for dinner, just because you can. Rather, the kind of independence where you are forced to make decisions that will alter your entire experience. I have had to struggle to communicate in broken Italian, gotten lost in countless cities, missed WAY too many trains, tried amazing (and not so amazing) foods, made new friends, and so on. The list could go on and on, but all of this has led me to learn something either about myself or this world.
I thought that I had a pretty good grasp on who I was, what I liked, what I needed, etc. Being abroad has put me in so many situations where I have been forced to dig even deeper into who I am. For example, I realized that I am way less of a planner than I thought. My parents always used to joke about how organized and prepared I was for everything. A family vacation was never complete until I had thought about every detail. However, my trips while abroad have been the complete opposite. The extent of my planning was pretty much booking the transportation tickets and lodging, and leaving the rest of the weekend up to fate. Often times I was traveling with others who had researched the city, finding the best restaurants, attractions to see, activities to try, and more. Learning that I am more spontaneous that I thought has led me to realize that following a strict plan can stress me out more than just winging it. I truly enjoy living in the moment and taking things as they come. Some of my best memories were the ones that were least expected.
Lastly, and most importantly, being abroad has showed me how incredible this world is. I feel so blessed to have been able to spend the semester learning about Italy and all the people in it. Although life in Italy is different than in America, which is different than life in Switzerland, and different yet from life in Amsterdam, there are still ways in which it is all alike. Finding the small connections between cultures is what bonds us as a world. A smile is universal, attempting to understand one another is appreciated, and respect is necessary. People are people no matter where they’re from.
This class has truly helped me in this entire learning process and finding my sense of place in Florence. It has opened my eyes to new perspectives and to finding all the quirky, diverse, and charming qualities of this city. I hope to take this new outlook and all I have learned back home with me. Despite my excitement to see my friends and family back home, I am so sad to see this semester come to an end. It truly was a once in a lifetime experience, filled with joy, growth, challenges, and more. As cheesy as it sounds, I aspire to travel the rest of the world someday to see what else I can learn about myself and this beautiful planet. Unfortunately, I am still unable to choose a favorite place in Italy. The entire country is captivating and every part of it will hold a special place in my heart.
Here is a link to another blog post describing six lessons this person learned while studying abroad. https://viva-mundo.com/en/noticia/post/6-lessons-learned-while-studying-abroad






















